Valentine Series Part 2

So tomorrow is the so-called big day. The fun now begins - the drug stores will be full of flustered men and if you from the hood, as we speak there is a instant store on every corner - selling all kinds of last minute stuff, so nobody will get kicked to the curb tomorrow.

So exactly what do you get a person say you just met two weeks ago? Or a person that you have been kicking it with, but it's not officially a relationship? I'm no expert, but I do like Valentines Day - so let me see what I can come up with.

First, however, a word to the Ladies - if you like Valentines Day, don't front like you don't!! Men DO NOT READ MINDS! As well as, Men don't react the same way as we do, so don't get pissed if he just says Thanks Baby!

For the 'new' friend:

Women - I would suggest keep it light and airy. If you know they like a certain beer/wine/liquor - get a bottle with a funny card! A batch of cookies made by you is also nice. A funny e-card works especially if you met them online. Leave the following words OUT: Love, Commitment, Forever, End of Time you get my drift

Men - Something that shows you consider them 'special' usually if you get them something they can put on their desk at work like a small plant, a funny card etc. A lunch date is also nice. You would be surprise how many women want folks at their job to know they are active in the dating scene.

For A Booty Piece

Men and Women: NOTHING - that's how folks get confused! Leave it like it is! They probably won't be with you anyhoo on this day.

For your three months person

Women: This is tricky, cause by now you are considering them your man - but that might not be true from his counterpart. I would suggest treat it like his birthday. If you all are sexing, this would be a perfect time to roll out some trick you have held back on cause you don't want him to think you a ho, lol. This also is a good time - to move the 'relationship' to your home - so get out the pots and pans. If he freaks out, then you know his intentions.

Men: Ok, whether you are on board or not, if she's been dating you about three months - you her man, lol So this means you need to decide if you are or aren't. Because if you are, then this is the perfect time for her reality to catch up with her fantasy. So get something in the $25-$50 range and do dinner or what not. If you AREN'T, then go generic all the way and step to the side by the way, because obviously you didn't make your intentions on the nature of ya'll dealings made and you got this woman strung along for nothing!

Ok, So I won't go into if you been together a long time etc. cause you know what to do and you know the consequences if you don't, lol

A few more Tidbits:

• Some of us don't like roses
  
• Accept a person for who they are - if they are not romantic like you but provide something away, be gracious
  
• Stop going out and spending all this money for this freaking pagen holiday
  
• Breakfast, Lunch and Dinner are surefire hits!
  
• Do NOT go up to your new man's job on the surprise tip - they don't really like that
  
• Do NOT get back with your Ex just because you lonely - they still the same person
  
• Make it fun. Mailing a whole box indivually of grade school cards is way cool
  
• Anything having to do with sex is the PERFECT Valentine Gift for a man
  
• If others are blessed to get Valentine Stuff - DON'T BE HATIN!
  
• A perfect solo Valentine Day is 'The Best Man' Popcorn and a bottle of wine
  
• Yea it's obvious he got it right before he came over, but he got it!