Dinner Conversation

DRIPPING CHOCOLATE - GO HAVE A LICK

12/14/06
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Put Your Hands around your ankles - so as I was listening to my Luke Selections, I had to laugh at my own shortcomings. I've disclosed this before but folks know that I have shall we say an infinity for stripclub music, lol. It just does it for me. I get to moving and groving and apparently I'm from whatever tribe these drums appeal to cause I get rhythm and everything, lol lol It takes me to the place where I'm 5'2 and weight 108 with the chinese slanted eyes. My long yaki japanese straight hair is glistening with the spray in diamond dust I put in it daily and I have a tonque ring and a navel ring. I am HOT!! But anyhoo.............

Had my review today. Got THREE count em THREE Exceeds Expectations this year! Never in my 8+ year tenure at this place have I exceeded expectations on anything but being an ass - so growth is phenonomal and the continued journey of putting my ducks in a row, the blessing of having CAUN in my life which brings me happiness and contentment and frees me up to focus is all a blessing. 2006 Wow when I get started on my year end review - it's gonna be a week long event, lol Be on the lookout for that!

Has alot of your day to day life become blog possibility. I find myself always in the middle of a conversation and like Duck on the Five Heartbeats gotta pull out an old Kroger paperbag and jot down some of the convo as a possible blogspot, lol lol lol Last Night was one of those nights.


Last evening while I was cooking dinner (garlic italian shrimp in tomato sauce over rice) Wait first let me set this up, when I cook dinner, CAUN mills around within 2 inches of me. Kissing me, hugging me, playing with my hair and roaming other areas (insert wicked grin here). I am swatting his hands and telling him to get off me and I can't move and I can't breathe and it's an experience, lol Because then I'll start messing with him, lol lol

So...CAUN and I were talking about when we decided to pursue our relationship. It revolved around the fact that both of us were at a crossroads. At that time Mobetta had made a swing in the upward direction and had asked me about him coming here to see what was up with us. I was dating CAUN maybe a month. Meanwhile CAUN was apparently some woman's 'prize'. Every once in awhile I get to using methaphors and overdo it, lol lol So we were asking each other what made us decide to pursue this particular relationship. I told him that the hardest thing to do is to push yourself forward. If you look behind you and it looks like that scene in Poltergist where she was running down the hall and it kept getting longer and longer then you need to move forward no matter the outcome. My life was going forward and I needed to follow it and not go backwards to a time and a place that in actuality wasn't going to be the same. So I chose to look forward to whatever the future had to bring.

Then we got to speaking about why we feel we make a good couple. It's funny. I was doing this dance the other day and CAUN said "Martin episode where Biggie was looking for background singers" and we fell out laughing because he just 'knew' what I was doing. Alot of folks look at all these very important tangible things that make relationships work and that you should look for in a relationship - but you know what, it's things like that which also make a relationship. I remember someone told CAUN that you don't marry someone because they like electronics like you - well actually you do, lol lol CAUN and I connect on a level that goes beyond the stuff you would want to connect if you about to try to be with someone a long ass time. You need to connect on that second level stuff. We both live in a section of space where frivilous shit matters to us. Yea we want to be able to quote movies and know what movie and what character. We want to go to Best Buy and oogle over the same shit, we wanna look at someone looking at hot ass mess at the mall and agree they looking a hot ass mess. These things are important as well. You wont' always be talking about religion, finances, futures etc. betta make sure you connect on some other levels.

The question came up are we each others best friends and we both said, "Yep". I remember someone said you don't necessarily have to be best friends with your mate and I tend to disagree. Giving your mate the same importance and respect you would give your bestfriend is a wonderful honor. CAUN is my best friend and no not like "Janet" is my best friend that's a female to female relationship - yet think about your best friend. The way you treat them, the way you depend and rely on them, the way you want to spend quality time with them even if you are not doing anything specific, they know you good/bad/ugly and they accept you anyway - shouldn't you want that with your mate?

Well there you have it a typical dinnermaking conversation between CAUN and I. Sprinkle in the jokes, abundant sexual inuendos and you got 99% of our evenings, lol lol

Oh here is a Christmas Movie Quiz - I got 8 out of 10, lol lol Gangsta Muslim in effect!

Before I go - am I the only one excited about Prince doing Superbowl Halftime?!